How to Finally Put Heartfelt Feelings Into Words

If you’ve ever found yourself staring at a blank page in a book you’re writing for your best friend, pen in hand and mind completely empty, you’re not alone.

You know how much they mean to you. You feel it deeply. But when it comes time to put that appreciation into words, everything suddenly feels too generic or too cheesy. “Thanks for always being there” doesn’t quite hold the weight of years of inside jokes and shared memories that only the two of you understand.

It’s frustrating, wanting to give them something meaningful but worrying you’ll get it wrong by not saying it just right. You’re not bad with words, it’s just not easy to do.

 

The Moment You Start Overthinking

You chose the book because it felt thoughtful and it’s something they can always come back to.

You sit down to write, maybe for their birthday or just because you want them to know how much they matter.

You write a sentence. Cross it out.

You start questioning everything. Do you sound emotional enough? Too emotional? Will they really feel what you’re trying to say?

Eventually, you land on something safe.

They’ll smile. They’ll appreciate it.

But deep down, you know it didn’t quite capture the complexity of your relationship. 

How to Move From “I Don’t Know What to Write” to writing with confidence 

Here’s a simple way to approach heartfelt messages for your best friend:

1. Let go of “perfect”

Meaningful writing doesn’t come from sounding impressive or generic, that would be inauthentic. The best messages come from being honest and simply, coming from you.

2. Use prompts to remind you of real memories

Personalised books with guided prompts take the pressure off. Instead of asking “What should I write?”, you’re gently answering prompts like:

• - The moment I knew we would be friends
• - Something you have taught me
• - Something I’d like to thank you for
• - One of my favourite things about you is

We find that prompts give you the confidence to seamlessly express yourself and it's your answers that create meaning.

3. Write the way you speak

Write like you’re talking to them. That’s the voice they know. That’s the voice that matters. After all, it is a meaningful gift from you to them. 

4. Let it be imperfect

We hear from people that they’re unhappy with the way their handwriting looks, or it doesn’t sound right. A slightly messy, deeply personal message will always mean more than something polished.

Frequently Asked Questions

What if I’m not naturally good with words?

You don’t need to be. All of our meaningful gifts provide prompts that are there to help you express feelings you already have. No skill required, just memories. 

Will it feel forced or scripted?

Not at all. The prompts guide what you reflect on, not how you say it. Your voice stays completely yours.

What if I get emotional while writing?

Let go of the pressure of feeling like the message is too cheesy, that’s often a sign you’re doing it right. Those emotions are what make the message meaningful.

Isn’t a simple message enough?

It can be. But if you’re here, it’s likely because you want something a bit more meaningful.

One Last Thought

If your best friend could read just one page that truly captured how much they mean to you, what would you want them to feel?

And what would it mean to you to finally say it?

Sometimes, all it takes is the right question to unlock the story that has been there all along. When you’re ready, explore our range of personalised gift books designed to help you express what matters most with ease.